Title: The Romeo and Juliet Delusion: Finding Freedom After Trauma
Author: Lori Abbott
Publisher: Lori Abbott
Published: April 16, 2023
Pages: 125
This is the second memoir I’ve read that grabs your attention from the opening page and delivers an essential message about addiction without holding back.
Lori Abbott is a well-educated attorney with over 15 years of experience in family and criminal law. Yet, she has not discerned that something is off with the guy at the bar. In fact, she finds herself incredibly drawn to him.
Romeo’s energy is electrifying and pulls her in at first glance. Once they start to talk, the attraction is mutual. Though they are each in a relationship now, the chemistry is undeniable.
Abbott and Romeo break it off with their spouses and eventually get together, and that’s when things get weird.
The first red flag was when Romeo invited Lori to his lake cabin in Nisswa, Minnesota, and opened the door using a credit card.
Then, he takes her to a place he said was his house, which looked like a college dorm. She asks about the Harley he said he had, which is nowhere around. Romeo becomes anxious and insists they leave for dinner. Lori complies.
Later, when she asks if they could return to the house, he says they can’t.
Huh?
Abbott catches Romeo in a series of lies but lets it slide, which she later realizes becomes a dangerous pattern.
Romeo loses control and smashes Lori’s car’s radio as the situation worsens. She is then forced to call his mother after he vanishes for several days.
It turns out that Romeo is a meth and heroin addict who is in and out of trouble. He is on child support for his daughter and has a felony case. The lake house was his parent’s year-round lake home, and the house belonged to a roommate who kicked him out. Romeo spends his nights at casinos or crashing on someone’s couch.
And these ain’t spoilers either because chile, things actually get worse.
This book stands out because the author does not shy away from the fact that while Romeo was addicted to drugs, she was addicted to Romeo. Abbott continues to fall for him because he persuades her that he is a victim of his past.
“What I did not realize at the time was that I was already becoming addicted to Romeo—one of the many lessons I have learned the hard way about addiction. I went from stagnation to intoxicating, reckless abandonment in a dangerously short period of time. The dichotomy between those two existences was the greatest rush I had ever felt in my life, and I was hooked.”
-Lori Abbott
The way the author ignored her intuition, knowledge, and awareness to excuse Romeo’s behavior is a warning for all women struggling to leave abusive relationships. Romeo would do the most outlandish things, and Abbott would close her eyes to it because she believed he could change.
“If you do not want to be doing something, but cannot stop doing it, you have a problem. Period.”
-Lori Abbott
This honest, well-written, and vulnerable story is a guide for women overcoming addiction, domestic abuse, and toxic relationships.
Trigger Warning: If you are struggling with similar addictions, be aware the author does not hold back in her descriptions. Proceed with caution.
Ratings:
- Strong Introduction: 4/5
- Authenticity / Believable: 5/5
- Organization: 5/5
- Thought Provoking: 5/5
- Solid Conclusion: 4/5
Overall: 5/5
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